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How to Use Your Summer Break Intentionally

Anastasis Faith
-By Abigail Borland


School is out for most of us, and ending for the rest of us.

I feel like summer comes with endless promises of finishing those nagging projects, getting to hang out with friends all the time, pursuing hobbies, spending more time in God’s Word, etc. Yet it always seems to dredge by slowly in front of Netflix or speed by without a chance to stop, rest, and enjoy the things we missed during school.

This summer, I want to use summer break 2018 wisely, intentionally, and for God’s glory. Instead of wasting these precious two months, I want to make goals, break them into achievable steps, and conquer those goals, growing in my faith and allowing Christ to draw me nearer to Himself along the way.

Below I will share some guidelines for making goals this summer, and then I will give you some ideas for things you can pour yourself into this summer.

How to Use Your Summer Intentionally

Making Your Goals


 1. Brainstorming and prayer.
I suggest taking an hour or two to prayerfully think through some activities God might be calling you to participate in or initiate this summer. Perhaps He wants you to lead a Bible study, write your grandparents every week, memorize a book of the Bible, mentor a younger girl, spend two hours a day in prayer, or all of the above! Write down any ideas that pop into your head and pray over them, asking God to show you how to best spend your time.


2. Break your ideas into achievable goals.
This is like what Anna described in her post about new year’s resolutions. Don’t just write on your goals list, “Conduct a Bible Study;” select a specific Bible study, contact a group of people and ask them if they would like to participate, and set aside time to prepare for the study. When all these steps are in place, you will be much more likely to follow through with your commitment. This way, you will have a plan to keep you on track.

3. Commit.
This truly is the key to accomplishing anything this summer. If you don’t commit to the things you feel God is calling you to this summer, you simply won’t get them done. Perhaps write out a list of things you want to commit to and summarize them, along with the steps to accomplish them, in a few sentences. Then, share your plans with your friends and family and ask them to help you stay on track.

Ideas for Goals and Summer Activities


1. Summer reading list!
This is so essential. If you are like me and you love to read, making a summer reading list allows you to see visible process in what you have read over the summer. The key here is to be intentional. Single out books that are Christ-honoring and clean. Try to select good fiction books, but also make sure that you pick out books that will teach you more about Christ. I suggest Christian biographies and solid Christian books. Just remember, be intentional about what you read so that you are rested and challenged in your faith by the end of the summer.  

      2. Mentor a younger girl.
While this is both exciting and scary, mentoring a younger girl not only stores treasure in heaven, but also helps you pass the summer and bring a younger Christian closer to Christ. Talk about reaping eternal rewards! Once you find someone to mentor, begin meeting with her once a week and challenging her spiritually, setting goals for her and helping her attain those goals.

3. Rest intentionally.
After a hard school year, the summer is a time of switching up the schedule, doing new things, and getting long-dreamt-of-but-still-unaccomplished projects finished; however, we also need rest to refuel our body and mind for the coming school year. This might take the form of extra sleep, but I encourage you not to sleep through the first half of the summer. Waking up an hour later than normal during the summer is fine, but consistently sleeping in until lunch is not the best idea.
I also challenge you to rest in Christ. Pray for longer each day, memorize more Scripture, prayer journal about the year and what you hope to accomplish, and really search your soul to see what you need to surrender to Christ and ask Him to take over. By resting intentionally during the summer, you will greet the upcoming school year with greater spiritual maturity.

4. Work on prayer and Bible memorization.
These are always areas we need to work on. But we must remember to break these things up into attainable goals. For prayer, perhaps set a goal of reaching one or two hours of prayer a day. You could break this up into half an hour in the morning and half an hour in the evening, pray for an hour the moment you wake up, or try other ideas. Ask God what amount of time He wants you to commit to and do just that–commit.
With extra time in the summer, work harder on things that you don’t have as much time for during the year. For Bible memorization, pick an epistle and begin memorizing a couple verses each day, perhaps half a chapter each week. Wouldn’t it be amazing to look back over your summer in a couple months and realize that you memorized the entire book of Colossians, Philippians, or James?  

5. Miscellaneous
Some other fun ideas you might try during the summer include: host a Bible study, write your grandparents once a week, play a game with your siblings every day, begin a prayer journal, learn a new skill, help with your church’s VBS, reach out to a neighbor, and just serve other people. The key to using your summer break well truly is to serve others. Deny yourself by helping other people, allowing Christ to reach into others’ lives through you. This will bring you, as well as those around you, joy.

I hope that God uses this to challenge you to brainstorm about using your summer break intentionally. Grab a pen and paper, and go start right now! Have a great summer break, and remember–do everything to the glory of God! 

Abigail Borland is entering her sophomore year of high school this fall. She enjoys encouraging others through non-fiction writing that points them to Christ, the Author and Perfecter of her faith. On any given day, she can be found reading a good book, working on schoolwork, listening to a podcast or music, or practicing hymns on the piano.  

What are your summer goals? Share in the comments below!

11 Things Every Preteen Needs to Hear

Anastasis Faith

A while back we had an awesome chat time on Instagram. The question was, “If you could give one piece of advice to a twelve-year-old girl as she is entering her teen years, what would you say?”

Advice for tween and preteen girl
The responses were so good, I’ve decided to share them here.

About Self-Worth, Beauty, Insecurity

“Your self-worth isn’t a thermometer, it doesn’t go up and down based on your accomplishments or the approval of others. Truly know that your worth is in Christ because you are His perfect creation. Don’t fret; He has a perfect plan for you.”


“Don’t waste your time on drama and trying to please everyone.”


“God made you just the way you need to be.”


About Boys

“When crushes develop, don’t chase after the guy. When girls chase boys, they don’t get what they want. Instead, the guy needs to be the initiator and the girl is the responder. Don’t rush into a relationship. Wait on God’s timing and wait until you’re old enough.”

About God

“Put your focus entirely on the Lord. Strive to serve Him in every area of your life. Don’t look to clothes, boys, friends, etc. for your happiness. Jesus is the only thing that will bring you true lasting joy!”


Keep God in mind throughout your day 24/7. Talk to Him like He’s your best friend, because He is! Read your Bible every day, morning and night. It’s better to read a little bit and make sure you fully understand it than to read a lot but not understand anything. Whatever trials you go through—persecution, friendships, boys, culture, body image, self-esteem, everything—understand that none of it matters. Live with an eternal perspective and live for the Lord.”

About Authority

“At this point in your life, I know it’s a struggle to relate to your mom, or any authority, but if you use these years right and submit to their authority in the future you’re going to have a deeper relationship with that person. The knowledge they have can be critical to helping you use these preteen years for their optimal benefit. Besides your relationship with God, the most important relationship right now is the relationship you have with your mom. She is the biggest tool to help you conquer the teen years ahead.”

About Habits/Routine

“Live each day like there’s no tomorrow. Don’t waste your time wishing you were older. You’ll be there soon enough! Live with abandon!”


“Live like Jesus loves you!”


“Develop habits of self-discipline. Learn to walk by the Spirit and not gratify the desires of the flesh (Galatians 5:16). This can be applied to even getting up in the morning.Time management and discipline are surprisingly crucial to my walk with Christ because if my time management is poor or my self-discipline is poor, then what suffers is my time with the Lord.” 

What advice would you give to a preteen? What was the most helpful thing you heard as a preteen? What was your favorite piece of advice in this post? Share in the comments!

5 Ways to Dishonor God in Your Journal

Anastasis Faith
           I opened up my first journal that I received when I was nine years old. Here’s a super embarrassing excerpt from when I was eleven. For ease of reading, I left out the spelling errors.

          I have just realized how mature I am. Give or take, I still like to play pranks on my sister Liza. And I still like fairies. But I know so much. Mom trusts me and tells me she doesn’t have to worry about me spilling beans about stuff. I’m really interested in politics. I listen to conversations about Dad’s company. I feel like I’m not a little child anymore. Some people, like my babysitter, think that I’m a little child—not knowing right from wrong. She punished me because I tried to tell her that my brothers aren’t allowed in my room! She said that I talked back, which I did. But that was because she wouldn’t listen! I wish people would stop treating me like a little ignorant child!

           

          The next entry was me venting because one of my siblings had “mistreated” me. A few entries later I was yet again complaining about someone else. I ended that entry by praying, “Dear God, please change this person’s heart.”

          I seriously should probably burn some of these journals. Or at least go through with a thick sharpie! Over the years, I’ve learned more about journaling and more about honoring God in my journal.

          Just because it’s private does not mean that it’s an excuse to sin.

          So how do we dishonor God in our journals? Here are five ways that you can sin while journaling.

1. Complaining

          This is probably one of the biggest sins in my journal. I complained about people, I complained about school, I complained about EVERYTHING. It’s easy, when we’re mad, to just rush to our journal and pour out our frustration. While sometimes this can be helpful in getting rid of a spirit of bitterness and anger, it may more often be a way to savor the anger longer. 

2. Using it to keep a record of wrongs

          I would harbor bitterness in my heart against my siblings, my parents, and other people in my life who made me angry. My journal became a storehouse of offenses instead of a fountain of joy from a prayerful walk with Christ. Writing things down is a GREAT way to keep records of wrongs, which the Bible says is not love (1 Corinthians 13:4-8). And 1 John 4:20 says that we cannot hate our brother and love God.
 
3. Talking about how great you are
          I don’t know if you have ever done this, but I think the clip above from my journal is enough to tell you that yes, I journaled about how great I was. Which is super embarrassing and now quite humbling. I was a very arrogant kid. Pride is the root of all sin and it is something we will always be fighting. I had more than my fair dose of arrogance, however.

          Maybe it goes without saying, but it didn’t for me. Talking about how great you are doesn’t honor God. Even if no one else reads it, it is self-glorification when we should be only glorifying our Savior.

4. Being boy-crazy

          My journal was more like a soap opera drama than anything else. You can totally process your feelings and think through potential boys. But if that’s all that you’re journaling about, you’re teaching yourself to be boy-crazy. It’s a hard line to walk, but God is not honored when we make our journals places that we idolize the cutest guy in our circle of friends. 

5. Dwelling on sinful thoughts

          Journaling can be a great way to process life and sort through emotions. I love journaling now, because it often leads into prayer and such peace. But when I was younger, I often used it as a means to dwell on sinful and arrogant thoughts instead of surrendering those to the obedience of Christ (2 Corinthians 10:31). These can include bitterness, anger, lust, envy, or idolatrous thoughts.

          A journal is a personal place to process life and commune with our heavenly Father. Just as the private place of your mind is under scrutiny by God, so is the private place of your journal. A journal is a wonderful thing. For those of us who need writing to survive like I do, journaling has been a serious blessing from heaven. It’s the most effective way in my life to surrender my worries to God.

          I regret the years that I dishonored God in my journaling and I encourage you to learn to avoid these pitfalls.

          For more thoughts on journaling, check out this Girl Defined article, Don’t Let Your Journal Turn Into a Soap Opera Drama.

Do you journal? What have been the number one BEST and WORST things about journaling? Share in the comments!

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