When I was twelve
and thirteen, I honestly had no clue what I was shopping for, or even how to
shop.
Why does it matter
if we know how to shop? Isn’t that kind of frivolous?
This post is about
keeping you from being frivolous.
There are two
things that I have found that have made me a much betters shopper. I rarely
come home now from the store with things I only wear once—or never.
These are great keys for shopping for modest clothes, though they can apply to any shopping trip.
These are great keys for shopping for modest clothes, though they can apply to any shopping trip.
1. How to evaluate the price
I went shopping
recently looking for a pair of black leggings at a second-hand store. I found
an awesome pair of black jeggings, but they were $10. To me, $10 is a little
more than I want to pay for second-hand leggings. But they were in great
condition, were thick, and had pockets, so I decided to get them.
I have worn them
probably around thirty times since I bought them. I wear them under dresses, to
bed, around the house, and, since they’re thick enough, I wear them with long
tunics or flannels with boots out of the house.
If I were to
divide the price by the number of times I have worn them, I find that it cost
me about $0.33 per times that I wore it. Plus, I plan on wearing them a lot
more in the future.
Even though it was
a tad more than ideal, I’ve gotten GREAT wear out of them. Knowing what I know
now, I would be willing to pay $15 for them.
If you buy a pair
of shoes for $50, but then they pinch around the toes, and you wear them twice,
that’s $25 per time you wore the shoes. I know I can’t afford that.
If you’re buying a
really pretty, but fussy blouse, think about how many times you could see
yourself wearing it. I’ve found that I don’t wear fussy clothes very much, even
if they’re really pretty. They’re just too uncomfortable to wear often.
The next time
you’re buying something, estimate how many times you will wear it. Then divide
the price by that. If you were renting it, would you want to pay $15 per time
you wore it?
This is how I
evaluate the price of something I am buying. I will pay more for the things I
know I will wear a lot, but I won’t pay much for—if I even buy—pieces that are
fussy or uncomfortable.
Shirts that require tank tops can be fussy, and it might be worth it to hold out until the next time to find a fuss-free modest shirt.
Shirts that require tank tops can be fussy, and it might be worth it to hold out until the next time to find a fuss-free modest shirt.
2. Frequent trips over long trips
By this, I mean
that frequent shopping trips are better than one long shopping trip. This
semester I drove my siblings to their piano lessons and would take them places
during their breaks. My sister and I would get to go check out our favorite
second-hand store every other week.
If you have the
pressure of needing to get your entire modest wardrobe in one shopping visit, you’ll
do a lot more “settling” instead of “adoring.” You won’t get excited about
everything you get. It’ll be much more about having enough long sleeve shirts
for the winter.
You will probably end up with things that are a little more frumpy, or you might end up with things that aren't as modest.
You will probably end up with things that are a little more frumpy, or you might end up with things that aren't as modest.
I understand that
not everyone has the luxury of frequent shopping trips. But if you have an
opportunity like I did, then go for it!
I can’t think of a
single purchase I made last fall that I wasn’t very pleased with.
If you want more
shopping tips, check out this post!
Do
you have any shopping tips to share? What are your favorite places to shop?
Share in the comments!
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