-By Sunny Bodenhamer
“Cease
striving and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be
exalted in the earth.” The Lord of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our
stronghold.”
Psalm 46:10-11
Life is beautiful. Anyone who tells you any
different is looking through the wrong pair of glasses. If you’re thinking to
yourself right now, “what planet did you come from? Life is bleak and cruel,” I
get it. I’ve been there too. I’ve gone through tough times where it felt like
my heart would never stop hurting, and I’ve said those very words to
myself—life is cruel.
Sure, there will always be ups and downs, but if
you’re in one of the downs right now, let me just encourage you to stop for a moment. Take a break from
the everyday grind, find a quiet place to think, and breathe deep. Rest. If you
don’t have a lot of time, that’s okay. All you need is a few minutes to be
still. I don’t know if you live in the country or the city, but if you can,
find a quiet spot outside or take a walk and look around you.
“My soul,
wait in silence for God only, for my hope is from Him. He only is my rock and
my salvation, my stronghold; I shall not be shaken. On God my salvation and my
glory rest; the rock of my strength, my refuge is in God. Trust in Him at all
times, O people; pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us.”
Psalm 62:5-8
Where I’m sitting right now, it’s late afternoon on
a cool fall day in Texas .
(Well, technically it’s winter, but if you’re familiar with Texas weather, you know that we really only
have two seasons—summer and fall. :P) The sun is just beginning to sink in the
soft blue sky, casting its farewell rays through the mostly bare branches of
the trees, down onto the carpet of leaves scattered across the ground. A gentle
breeze is rustling through the evergreen needles of the towering pines. A few
wisps of clouds are rolling lazily across the sky, and I can’t help but
remember how very blessed I am to be alive. Each one of us has so much to be
thankful for.
There’s beauty all around me, but you see, I just
had to stop for a moment, look around, and give my soul a chance to breathe.
Time flies. Already, a new year has arrived Don’t let yourself be so busy all
the time so that you miss out on all the blessings the Lord has in store for
you! The beauty is there—if only you will open your eyes and let it in.
God is in
control. You can trust Him, and He loves you. He is there for you. Rest in
that.
“Restore
to me the joy of Your salvation and sustain me with a willing spirit.”
Psalm 51:12
“Behold,
God is my helper; the Lord is the sustainer of my soul.”
Psalm 54:4
Even if life feels too hectic to handle, pray for a
peaceful heart, then do your best to slow down and He will pour His grace and
peace over you. He is there for you. He
is always enough.
“Because
Your lovingkindness is better than life, my lips will praise You. So I will
bless You as long as I live; I will lift up my hands in Your name.”
Psalm 63:3-4
Take a
moment to praise Him for who He is, and for the beautiful world He created for
His children to enjoy. I know for
me, that small step works in leaps and bounds to help me gain some perspective
when I feel overwhelmed. Search for
things, great or small, that you can thank Him for. Maybe it’s that mug of
hot coco you’re sipping on right now, with marshmallows and whipped cream. :) Or
the last strains of Christmas songs playing on the radio that warms your heart.
Maybe it’s the laughter and love all around you as you spend time with family.
You could even thank Him for the cozy fire in the fireplace, and the fuzzy
socks that feel so soft on your feet. Thank Him that even though the coming
school semester will be stressful, it’s an incredible opportunity to learn and
grow. Not many people in the world get to go to school!
No matter
what you’re going through, there will always be something you can choose to be
thankful for. Focus on that
instead of the negatives, and it will help you find joy this season. And guess
what? Joy is contagious. As you choose to start focusing on the positives, you
will help others around you do the same! Never forget that one kind word, one
smile can brighten someone’s entire day.
So when
you feel like the world is spinning too fast, remember—life is beautiful if we
take the time to adjust our focus.
Sunny Bodenhamer is a Christian, homeschooled girl learning to be a light in this crazy, amazing life we’ve been given, reach for the stars, and believe that anything is possible through Jesus Christ. She believes that every day is a miracle full of second chances and beauty, if we stop and take the time to see it. She loves to write, crochet, drink coffee, and hopes to inspire and encourage through the written word.
Is your life overwhelming? What has God been teaching you through the business? What are some things that you’re thankful for? Share in the comments!
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